Actually, I’m not quite sure to write about last week’s topic because it’s so awkward talking about stuffs you should have known from your parents or your kinky friends or X-rated films you (not-so) accidentally watched or anything but my innocent blog pages! Aaaaaaaaaaaakkkkk~ I’m just kidding. Let’s just give it a shot.
First thing first, since there’s no setting key for parental guidance here, I hope you’re old enough to read this. Second, pleasseeeeeeeeeeee don’t try anything I write here at home or hotel rooms or clubs or anywhere if you’re not married and if you’re gonna do it with someone else who’s not your husband or wife. Third, please, do not masturbate to anything because—for Zeus’ sake! —I’m not trying to make you imagine things you shouldn’t.
Okay, here we go.
Love is not always about sex.
Sex is not always about love.
Thus, you are completely allowed to say no when your boyfriend or girlfriend ask for sex. Because—please!—it’s not some kind of a love-meter! Being in love often leads to sex, which seems to be a natural consequence of two people fall in love at first sight, but having sex doesn’t necessarily mean that you will fall in love, Sweetie. Welcome to reality.
I’ll skip the course of explaining the main “spare parts” because I suppose you both have already got along really well, but I’m going to tell you some stuff you might be missing. Intercourse is the spotlight of the process; it’s true. You don’t have some sort of wireless device on your thing to send your soldier, do you? So it’s obvious that Mr. P and Mrs. V are the main actor and actress. That’s no longer a secret. However, have you ever considered some other parts of the body are also worth a count? No? Check this one out.
Brain can be said to be the most important sex organ. Why? Because it controls the sexual responses, releases sex hormones, and is where all the sex fantasies and identities live. You’re not buying it?
“If he can perform a good foreplay, it won’t hurt.”
In my opinion—sorry to say—it’s kinda bs, because—hellooooo—you could try spending nights to make a mentally tired, stressed, depressed woman reach her climax with your tremendous foreplay but I’m pretty sure she would end up faking her orgasm. Take this as a note; foreplay does help making her thing wet, but if she doesn’t enjoy it—doesn’t matter if you have a forty-five-minute-long foreplay—it will still hurt. There is just no point in getting mentally geared up for all that extra action if she’s not in the mood to enjoy it. So yeah, the brain takes quite big part in this.
Skin is the next big thing. With a little bit of know-how, you can conquer her world! HA HA HA HA HA! Okay, cut it out. To master the peak, you gotta climb up the hill. Brain is the aim, and skin is the stairway to get your heaven-on-earth. Skin carries a network of highly sensitive nerves all over our bodies, so that any parts of the body may be stimulated for sexual arousal. For some people, certain spots can be more erogenous but usually it’s the nipples, neck, earlobes, navel, and inner thighs. You want some more? Go find it out yourself
The last thing is my own tips for you—because I’m a super nice and generous person, of course—which is breathing. For your information, I’m not talking about shallow breaths that go straight from nose to mouth (you’re not planning to get a super-pointed Are-You-Having-A-F*******-Asthma-Dude face, are you?). Alex Katehakis, the clinical director of the Center for Healthy Sex in Los Angeles recommends deep breathing into the pelvic area and imagining that you’re sending the breath into the vaginal canal before gently exhaling through the nose. This creates oxygen and increases blood flow in the pelvic area. Sounds great, huh?
In conclusion, no pain no gain, pal. It’s all up to you
25 Feb 2014
Tidak ada komentar:
Posting Komentar