Sex Appeal. Another Piece in a Grand Scheme of Procreation (Chlain Liunardy)

Before I start, this will contain few to no pictures whatsoever, because I tried googling…………….Let’s say it’s not pretty. At least for minors. So if you are here to see porn, be prepared to be disappointed you perverts.

Let’s move on. Looking back on what I write last time regarding strange tale of attraction, I begun to wonder, “how someone are attracted to other people anyway?”. According to someone, people will have attachment and attraction if they’re meeting so often and for a long time. Also, let’s not lying. Sex appeal also have a part in attraction. That’s why a certain girl in your class has all sort of attention from all the boys. or vice-versa. But despite all of that, sometimes a same situation have different effect on us. That’s because our brain and body are full on chemical stuff and hormones, so it’s no longer a joke that our ‘mating sense’ are affected by these things.

Little trivia stuff, it appears we have an innate body system to avoid blood-related marriage a.k.a. incest. I shudder to think if there aren’t any in the first place. And I really have questions to people who, despite have the defense, are still doing it. I guess that’s why many Japanese comics that use this as their romance plot has the ‘not blood-related’ backup plan to avoid severe backlash.

As a human, we scanned someone’s physical appearances to determine how much we want to date him/her (let’s be honest, we all do that). We scanned on someone, either their ass, their boobs, their faces, their body, etc. Apparently, that’s something we carry with their genetics. We all looking for someone good enough to fit our children. Let’s think about it. Why men take a good look at a girl’s breast? Because they wanted their children to have a constant supply on breast milk (though that’s proven to be irrelevant). Why men look for someone’s with great hips? Because that means she can bear their children and the birth process won’t be hard. Why women look for men with good body? Because that means they can take a good care of their body, and thus, their children. Also, there are stuff that we cannot see and predict. Like pheromones, and preferences. Yeah, not all men see a super big breast as beautiful. Me? i saw that as a huge pain for the woman. Heck, I’d suggest a breast-reduction operation to them, just for the sake of their back. Also, being super skinny doesn’t make you pretty. Some may saw you with a concern in their eyes. Women in a office clothes may sexy for some, not for others. The bottom line? It’s pure subjective.

So, are we all destined to be with someone? Genetically, yes. Is it also mean we’re locked to that person? Not really. Like I said, attraction, romance, love. It’s a very strange thing. The very same person you love could be the very same person you hate after several years passing by. You maybe decided to separate woth the same person you said that you can’t life without him/her couple of years ago. Don’t forget there’s also a case where someone are married for so long, and where his/her partner died, they decided to not married again; and there’s a couple that are willing to kill their partner so they can get his will/hook up with another people, etc. So many examples out there. I think my point is clear here.

We all looking for our special one in different way. Some may look into their body. Some may look on their insides (not their organs. If there’s someone do, that’s creepy as hell). Some also look into their financials. This is just a thing that spins in a different and complex motion to find our ‘destined one’. Whether things holding up or not, it’s different matter. And something you should fight for.

So, it’s no matter when you’re choosing someone based on his/her sex appeal. But remember, never focus your affection on it. Because, sex appeal will fade over the course of time. And, so may your love. At least, that’s what I told myself thousand times. Does that meant you shouldn’t look for someone’s sex appeal? Not really. Why? Because in the law of attraction said that physical attraction is a first step toward emotional attraction, even though that’s not always the case. So yeah, it’s a mess we all face every single day. Sex appeal attracts other people suited to be our life partner, then we fall in love, and got married. All for the sake of procreation and fulfilling our belonging needs.

And that’s all the wall of text I have today. Not my usual stuff, but hey.

Well, you still reading this? Congratulations. Here, have this as compensation. Just make sure to wipe your drools, and make this picture as a motivation to have bodies like this.

9 Mar 2014