You Are Sexy and They Know It (Fitria Nugraha)

Imagine you are reading a magazine, and in the magazine there is a picture of a woman with great body, she has full breasts, big butt, small legs, dark brown long wavy hair, tan skin, big brown eyes, full lips with pearl white teeth and a perfect smile.  What is the first thing that pops into your mind?  Do you think that woman shows sensuality? Well if you do, that’s right. Sensuality is everything about physical that relates with sexual pleasure. Generally women’s breast, butt, legs, and lips have a strong correlation with sensuality.

The common thing that we know, most man will be more attracted by a woman who shows their sensuality. This kind of thought encourages woman to dress provocatively. Some women often use a mini skirt with a tank top, or a really tight dress which emphasize their breast or butt. They excessively show their sensuality in the public. This kind of behavior often makes me think “Are they really have a true confident about themselves? Or actually they are not confident about themselves so the only thing that they could ‘sell’ is their body?”.

Well for me personally, it’s okay when a woman wears quite sexy outfit. Sometimes, wearing outfit which shows sensuality could make you feel more confident and beautiful. The problem is when a woman dress provocatively only for the purpose of attracting man attention. For me, a woman who does that can’t appreciate their own body. Yes, a man will be more attracted to you. But do you want to be judge only by your physical features? Do you think a man will respect you if you can’t respect your own body? So girls, please reconsider when you want to show your sensuality. Look into the mirror and ask yourself “Do I show too much?”. If you don't think so and feel confident in it, then go for it!

The other thing is, remember a good guy won’t judge you only by your look. If a guy only interested by your appearance then it means they are not worth your time! When you give more respect to your body, people shall do the same to you. So be more confident for who you truly are. You are Sexy and they know it! :)

14 November 2013