Rabu, 27 November 2013

the word "Marriage" (Vivian Amelia)


"Marriage is not a noun. It is a verb.
It's not something you get.
It is the way you love your partner everyday."
-Barbara de Angelis

     One thing I've learnt from the documentary film is,
Marriage is a life. Marriage is a life itself in your life.
Being married to someone, is about creating a life cycle again in your life cycle.

    Before I watched the documentary, I was like all the ordinary woman,
all I thought was, wanting to be marry with someone, having kids, and growing old together with someone I really love.
But it is not that easy as you think.

     She isn't that beautiful anymore.
Her body-shaped not like a guitar anymore.
She is emotional and sensitive now.
She is having her post-partum depression after having a child born.
Did you just let her go through it alone?

     He is just not that charm anymore.
He wears a lousy and sweated shirt everyday.
You just not felt like kissing him anymore.
He is worried about his dreams, and the money needed now.
Because between his dreams and money, there's a gap which separates it.
Did you just let him go through it alone?

     You know,
you have to find some time even in your busiest day,
doing an activity you used to do it together.
You have to find a good timing,
to communicate about this new life with each other,
in a loving and caring way you used to be.

You find a time to do your hobby.
to spend the time alone or together with your friends out there.
you just have to find it out and communicate.

Being married,
is not about abandoning all things in the past and starts anew.
But being married,
is about create a new life with every single things you had before.

     Lucky.
I love this song so much, and the song name is Lucky,

"I'm lucky I'm in love with my best friend.
Lucky to have been where I have been,
Lucky to be coming home again....
    I'm lucky we're in love in every way
    Lucky to have stayed where we have stayed
    Lucky to be coming home someday....."

Love is such a wonderful thing that God leaves to us within so many things in the world.
Love is not a political statement.
But a human experience. (Hathaway)

:)
who can wait until the proof of love appears?
who can love until love shows it's true face?

20 November 2013

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