Sex and Stress (Vivian Amelia)

     Sex and Stress. That's the topic for today. :)
Although I skipped a class, but I did search for the materials in youtube.
Although it's not fully the same, but it's okay.
What matters are the essences of the learning.

     I got a quote that I read yesterday on my friend's instagram captions.
And that is one of the best Marilyn Monroe's quotes.
It says :

 "I'm selfish, impatient, and a little insecure.
I make mistakes. I am out of control and at times hard to handle.
But if you can't handle me at my worst,
Then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best."

     What a confident saying was that.
But there is a right point in there.
And there is a line that connected to what I want to say below.
When a women is facing so many stresses in life, there are some points that will be influenced in her life.
One of that is sexuality.

     Woman, as so many roles that have been expected to her in this wide society,
Now is having so much issues that closely related to sex.
I believe, every human in this world, will have the worst time of his/her life.
And then like a tire that always spin around, in a time or moments,
He or she would found his faith back in life.

     That worst moment, that makes us stressful, depressed, and maybe had some sleepless night.
Or maybe for some women, food is a stress-reliever.
So for men out there, please do not always hope for some perfect-shaped.
Hahaha

     When a stressful situations come to a woman, she may not have the desire of having a sexual intercourse. Because sexual intercourse involved a good emotions and states to begin.
And in some cases, but not for every men, sexual intercourse in fact is a stress-reliever.
Why women and men are so reciprocal to each other?

     In my opinions, they are so reciprocal, because they need to complete each other.
:) in time, you will found that communications is the main key of all kinds of relationships.
Varies on the type of communications.

     Full disclosure is very-very needed. I always very love a line.
It says that true love does not have any surprises.
Not the surprises that means literally. But surprises of who you think you really are.

When you are having some problem and conflicts, that making you stress.
Talk to your partner.
Women always do one thing stupidly, they always thought that a good partner is someone who knows herself without her saying.
That is completely wrong. Men did not know what is in our mind, if we don't tell them.
So from today onwards, please start to communicate to your partner about what you really need from them.
And try to understand the situations that going on that time.
Don't wait until the day comes, when they fully understood you without you tell them.
Because it will never happens.

Saying and thinking is so much easier than doing.
But before doing, you must think first.

    Have a wonderful living out there, women!
:* reach a life you wanted, and be worth-living.






2 Oktober 2013