Jumat, 22 Maret 2013

based on book and documentary film (Peta Fariza Aruna)



As i read a book titled Why Men Don’t Listen and woman Can’t Read Maps, i could see the different between men and women. In many ways, the difference between both of them is not only the gender, but there are so many things that fortunately we could see it as long as we live. For instance, the difference includes the ways they think, the perspectives, the role, and so on. Actually, those kind of phrases are connected with a documentary that i watched during Sexual Behavior class.

There were some lines in the documentary that tell about the perspective of how men see women and the other way round. On the line, men and women are tend to look for mates that has a perfect body. Reputedly, perfect body of women or men shows the fertility and healthy. Besides, it clearly shows a good gene as a result for the inheritances   So, as a human being who has instinct to reproduce mostly tend to look for that kind of men or women.

Now, let’s see the reality.. Don’t we had seen people who has really tiny mate or the fatty one? Actually, body shape not only thing that matter for our happiness. There are many things that we have to consider to choose a mate. Even though appearance tend to be number one for most of people, but inner side’s of people seems more important to know. For people who has a mate that not so perfect in appearance, i assume they have something deeper to look at. Because inner side of people is very difficult to get, people have to do a serious approach to get in there. Importantly, it’s way harder than just to look at the body of someone.

For me, i know im not that perfect as a human being, im not that perfect for everyone to stare at me as they pass by. But i know, there’s must be something inside of me that people want to know more and more. because i believe everyone is unique.

13 Maret 2013

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