After I watched movies about human attraction in sexual behavior class, I’m just started to searching another fun facts about sex appeals and human human attractions. i found it very amusing and very interest to read it.
i found this on Christopher Hudspeth’ blog with title’s 9 facts worth knowing about human attraction
1. Sometimes we exchange a like for a like. Have you ever been told that so-and-so-who-you-barely-ever-noticed-before has a crush on you, then suddenly you felt a mutual liking for them? Well the attraction might be reciprocated based mostly on the fact that you feel complimented by their feelings, and automatically relate those pleasant, positive thoughts toso-and-so-who-you-barely-ever-noticed-before.
what i thought about this fact is quite interesting and makes me thinking about it a lot. after serial things about relationship that I’ve tried to recalling. maybe it’s because we like someone that we know they would love us for sure and it has guarantee that our love won’t get us in vain. we need some guarantees to be love back by someone. that’s why it makes sense.
2. Symmetrical faces are at an advantage. People love them some straight, well aligned eyes, lips and noses. Symmetry tends to be found attractive because it’s basically all perfect and junk, which is directly related to excellent genes and the potential to create beautiful babies. I know there are more eloquent ways to word that, but the point is that those with flawlessly proportioned faces tend to catch quite a few eyes. Don’t fret, my fellow crooked-structure-faced friends, there are plenty of highly enjoyed asymmetrical faces. Who, you ask? For example, some dude named Ryan Gosling and a lady named Ashley Greene — two well known lookers and perfect examples of the opposite of the symmetrical appeal.
it just similar to the statement on the movie i watched in behavior class! and yes no one would like someone with weird faces. because something normal is always been judged as something good in societies. good is nice. nice is good. normal is good and nice.
3. Birth control pills can take control of attraction. A study found that these oral contraceptives influenced some women’s opinions so significantly that down the road, they were more prone to losing attraction to their partner. The pill may persuade a woman to seek redeeming qualities such as brains and financial security, or completely alter her preferences while taking a regular dose of it. The research also showed that while they often became asexual with, or completely turned off by their companion, they were more appreciative of that person’s other offerings, which made them more likely to stay involved in the relationship.
after several studies I’ve been read about hormones, hormones regulates our body to produce, to having some urges, and many things that i can’t mention one by one. and yes it makes sense if after we take birth control, our body could feel sensations. maybe after pill that maybe some effects that would consider us to do such things.
4. People whose parents had them in their 30s or 40s are likely to find older looking faces more attractive than someone born to a younger couple. If your celebrity crushes tend to be elderly politicians, retired professional athletes, older celebrities or people with AARP cards, welp, just consider your parents’ age when they had you.
i don’t quite sure about this statement, because i found it depends on the environment also,. but in my opinion some of ladies may find older very ravishing because of their maturity on their looks and been linked to images that they having such a good control in life also women.
5. Sometimes love is legitimately in the air. There’s some odorless pheromone of sorts that men release called androstadienone. It is in sweat, but again, it’s odorless, so anyone smelling like armpits need not continue skipping showers and deodorant. It doesn’t work that way, go and wash your body now, ya hear? This stuff is capable of causing its victims to be increasingly stimulated and alert, but it’s very subtle so nobody’s going to aggressively jump your bones like on those ridiculous AXE body spray commercials.
like an animals, human, release pheromones involuntarily that would attract a ‘mate’. Most humans,are actually drawn by scent to a prospective ‘mate’ that we don’t even realize we’re sensing. that’s why we are might having some kind of love at first sight suddenly, even though we don’t believe it at first. and butterfly in our stomach when your crush just passed by right in front of you. and would drive you crazy :0
6. The higher the unfathomable pedestal you place a person on, the more you’ll want them. If there’s a person you think very highly of, to the point where you consider them essentially unattainable, you’re going to find them attractive because in your eyes, they embody the epitome of damn near perfection. Want to have a brutally intense crush on someone? Convince yourself that they’re “out of your league,” then watch the stock market that is your heart declare their stock rapidly rising.
7. Hungry men tend to favor heavier women. Psychologists say it’s a socioeconomic thing since in theory, a larger woman would be associated with having access to resources. You know, a full refrigerator and a bunch of edible assets. The notion of someone subconsciously being attracted to a person for the potential nourishment in their pantry isn’t much different from a person being drawn toward a guy or gal who is wearing expensive jewelry or clothing, because they know very well what that implies about their fund$.
i guess not in some parts of asia countries. asia men tends to look things like ‘the skinnier you are, the more attractive you will be’. maybe it’s kind of ‘symbol of prosperity’ but prosperity not been a thing anymore in these days ;p
8. If you make the first move, you’ll be more attracted. Think of times when you’re the original creator of a project, willing to go to extreme lengths to make sure your baby doesn’t die. A connection with a human being is obviously different in many other ways, but by being the initiator, you’re liable to care at least a little bit more and have stronger feelings during the early stages of attraction.
9. Wearing a particular color can increase your sex appeal. The oh-so-special aforementioned hue is none other than red. Just by donning it you’re upping your attractiveness and appeal, and it’s as if any red article of clothing changes the way a person is perceived sexually. Hope you kept the receipt for all fifty shades of grey, because you’re going to want to exchange ‘em for some red ones.
when we looking around in some fancy restaurants at Jakarta, especially on valentine’s day, you will see many of girls wear red on their dates. red is symbol of sex, in addition, red is use to evoke erotic feelings. no wonder men tends to like us in red dress on special occasion.
attraction might be one of our consideration to be in love with someone. it just like a beginning for something that would navigate us to relationship, but it is not the only considerations that we got. we tend to look more than attraction, such as status, wealth, personality, comfort, that would makes us decide to love them. it just complicated things when it comes to love. 
12 Maret 2014
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